Author: Dee

Most Important

I have learned that the most important thing is life is to love yourself. A good way to help is to make a list of your good qualities. Review the list everyday and/or everytime you feel down about yourself. Just remember you are wonderful.

From I Want to I’m Thankful

We have a list of things that we think will make feel happy and fulfilled. They all begin with: I want…. I wish…. I need…. If only…. Basically, we are saying “IF” this happens my life will be wonderful, beautiful, and fulfilled. I had so many of these lists, that I lost track of them […]

A New Beginning

Yes you can have a new beginning with your life. This has happened to me. I felt so bad about myself for as long as I can remember. I now realized this was a learned behavior perpetrated by my mother. She was very unhappy and exhibited bipolar behavior. She passed her anxieties on to her […]

Trust

Trust, to me, is probably the most important part of a relationship. We need to totally trust our partners to be in a soulmate loving relationship or any relationship. We begin to earn each other’s trust during the early stages of a relationship. Then, as it developes we know that trust is there and we […]

Healing and Rest

Hello. I’m opening the door to Door to Love, again. I took a break for healing and rest. I believe it is important for everyone to realize it is okay to take sometime for yourself. We get distracted with the hustle and bustle of our everyday life. Then, before we realized we are exhausted and […]

Deserving Love

We all deserve to be loved. Nobody is perfect. Sometimes we put high expectations on ourselves, at least, I do. Who would love my muffin top midriff and my freckles on my nose? Who would love my habit of making a To Do list everyday? Who would love me because I tend to snort when […]

Changing a Bad Day

Some days are great, some days are good and some days are bad. A bad day can happen quickly when you are searching on dating apps or dating. The key is to take that bad day and dissolve it into a good day. I am inspired to have more great and good days than bad […]

Smiling

A smile is a friendly, relaxed, and happy signal. A genuine smile signals a positive feeling out to another and can trigger a smile in return. Researcher’s say the muscles you use when you smile trigger’s the brain to produce endorphins, which are the chemicals that relieves pain and stress. Also, I have read that […]

5 Minute Visualization

I was inspired by reading “Adventures for your Soul” by Shannon Kaiser. She says fear can block you from what you want and visualization will overcome this fear. Shannon suggests to take five minutes a day and paint a mental picture of your future life. She says during this visualization imagine every aspect of your […]