We have a list of things that we think will make feel happy and fulfilled. They all begin with: I want…. I wish…. I need…. If only…. Basically, we are saying “IF” this happens my life will be wonderful, beautiful, and fulfilled. I had so many of these lists, that I lost track of them […]
Author: Dee
A New Beginning
Yes you can have a new beginning with your life. This has happened to me. I felt so bad about myself for as long as I can remember. I now realized this was a learned behavior perpetrated by my mother. She was very unhappy and exhibited bipolar behavior. She passed her anxieties on to her […]
Trust
Trust, to me, is probably the most important part of a relationship. We need to totally trust our partners to be in a soulmate loving relationship or any relationship. We begin to earn each other’s trust during the early stages of a relationship. Then, as it developes we know that trust is there and we […]
Healing and Rest
Hello. I’m opening the door to Door to Love, again. I took a break for healing and rest. I believe it is important for everyone to realize it is okay to take sometime for yourself. We get distracted with the hustle and bustle of our everyday life. Then, before we realized we are exhausted and […]
Deserving Love
We all deserve to be loved. Nobody is perfect. Sometimes we put high expectations on ourselves, at least, I do. Who would love my muffin top midriff and my freckles on my nose? Who would love my habit of making a To Do list everyday? Who would love me because I tend to snort when […]
Changing a Bad Day
Some days are great, some days are good and some days are bad. A bad day can happen quickly when you are searching on dating apps or dating. The key is to take that bad day and dissolve it into a good day. I am inspired to have more great and good days than bad […]
Smiling
A smile is a friendly, relaxed, and happy signal. A genuine smile signals a positive feeling out to another and can trigger a smile in return. Researcher’s say the muscles you use when you smile trigger’s the brain to produce endorphins, which are the chemicals that relieves pain and stress. Also, I have read that […]
5 Minute Visualization
I was inspired by reading “Adventures for your Soul” by Shannon Kaiser. She says fear can block you from what you want and visualization will overcome this fear. Shannon suggests to take five minutes a day and paint a mental picture of your future life. She says during this visualization imagine every aspect of your […]
New Year Resolutions
Happy New Year! Did you make New Year’s resolutions for 2024? Did you achieve them? Now is the time to reflect on your list. Celebrate if you achieved them but don’t be disappointed if you didn’t. I never made new year’s resolutions, I lived life as it came. Then one year, I decided to start. […]
Expectations
My happiness grows in direct proportion to my acceptance, and in inverse proportions to my expectations. Michael J. Fox We have many expectations in our life. There are expectations others have projected to us. There are expectations we put on ourselves, to be something we are not. These expectations usually bring us unhappiness. We must […]