Author: Dee

Deserving Love

We all deserve to be loved. Nobody is perfect. Sometimes we put high expectations on ourselves, at least, I do. Who would love my muffin top midriff and my freckles on my nose? Who would love my habit of making a To Do list everyday? Who would love me because I tend to snort when […]

Changing a Bad Day

Some days are great, some days are good and some days are bad. A bad day can happen quickly when you are searching on dating apps or dating. The key is to take that bad day and dissolve it into a good day. I am inspired to have more great and good days than bad […]

Smiling

A smile is a friendly, relaxed, and happy signal. A genuine smile signals a positive feeling out to another and can trigger a smile in return. Researcher’s say the muscles you use when you smile trigger’s the brain to produce endorphins, which are the chemicals that relieves pain and stress. Also, I have read that […]

5 Minute Visualization

I was inspired by reading “Adventures for your Soul” by Shannon Kaiser. She says fear can block you from what you want and visualization will overcome this fear. Shannon suggests to take five minutes a day and paint a mental picture of your future life. She says during this visualization imagine every aspect of your […]

New Year Resolutions

Happy New Year! Did you make New Year’s resolutions for 2024? Did you achieve them? Now is the time to reflect on your list. Celebrate if you achieved them but don’t be disappointed if you didn’t.  I never made new year’s resolutions, I lived life as it came. Then one year, I decided to start. […]

Expectations

My happiness grows in direct proportion to my acceptance, and in inverse proportions to my expectations. Michael J. Fox We have many expectations in our life. There are expectations others have projected to us. There are expectations we put on ourselves, to be something we are not. These expectations usually bring us unhappiness. We must […]

Growing Love

It has been awhile since my last post. I hope you understand. But this has not stopped my reading and researching into healing my insincerities and anxieties.  Numerous life coaches have said you have to believe in yourself and love yourself. To do this they recommend saying “I’m beautiful.”, “I am loved.” “I love.” “I’m […]

Love Yourself

LOVE yourself! We have all heard that numerous times. But let’s think about it, it makes sense. We have heard much advice on how to do this and I’m not a doctor or licensed medical professional, but I have gathered some of their advice. And here are some of my thoughts. The best way to […]

Love’s Definition

What is your definition of LOVE? The word gurus at Webster’s New World Dictionary says the meaning of LOVE is:  n. 1 strong affection or liking for someone or something 2 a passionate affection of one person for another 3 the object of such affection; a sweetheart or lover 4 Tennis a score of zero. […]

About Doors to Love

Everyone is exploring and searching for LOVE. Lucky are the ones that find a loving, honest and respectful relationship. Their door to Love is wide open. But unfortunately, for most of us throughout this Love search, we have very bad experiences. These experiences slammed our door shut on Love. Some of us have internalized bad […]