Trust, to me, is probably the most important part of a relationship. We need to totally trust our partners to be in a soulmate loving relationship or any relationship. We begin to earn each other’s trust during the early stages of a relationship. Then, as it developes we know that trust is there and we don’t have to worry. But unfortnately, all to often, we have relationships where trust has been volated and we end the relationship. It is hard to recover from this sense of violation. We are scared that it will happen again in the next relationship. I have been in relationships where trust has been broken. It is very hurtful and I feel it is unsafe to trust again. But I know not every relationship has trust issues. I have kept on and found that you have to learn to trust for relationships to thrive. The best way to earn trust is to be honest and trueful with one another. It is a learning process and in a new relationship, take babysteps and build on these babysteps. I have done this and have learned to trust again.
Love,
Dee